DoubtingAs a Tarot Reader/Coach I come across so many people who tell me they want this or they want that.  I think its awesome.  I love when clients have clear goals.  That’s Part 1 of Manifesting.  Be clear on what you want.  The tricky part comes next.   What are you doing about it? 

You say you want to have love in your life. You want a partner who is smart, loving, confident, loyal and supportive.  YAY!  So why are you still sleeping with the Man-Child who openly tells you that he doesn’t want a girlfriend?  Why are you so reluctant to do things that will help you meet new people (being set up, online dating, etc)?  What are you doing to make sure that you’re the type of person who would attract such a fabulous partner? 

You say you want to have a successful career in acting. You want to be on a hit TV show, attract a well established agent and you want to be nominated someday.  COOL!  So why aren’t you improving your craft? Why are you going out and getting drunk instead of networking? Why are telling people its “hard” instead of finding solutions to make it easier? Why aren’t you consistently doing something every day that takes you closer to where you want to be? 

When working with clients, I try to help them focus on what they need to do to get them to where they want to be.  Yes, its great to know what you want.  But you have to align your life so that those things will more easily come to you.  You’ve got to take the actions that show you really want it.  You’ve got to create the feelings and emotions that make you believe it…before it even shows up.

Last month my lovely friend and colleague Nidhi Handa of Bliss by Numbers and I started a podcast called Lifestyle Luminaries.     We chose “Lifestyle Luminaries” because as Life and Biz Coaches, we help our clients get clear on what they truly want and then illuminate the actions they need to take to get it.  Our experience in Tarot and Numerology add some extra special insight that we think you’ll love 😉  In our most recent episode we discussed this particular issue. Click on to the link below to hear what we have to say: