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I know lots of you have that friend and/or family member who, while being a really lovely person, just can’t seem to attract that special someone.   You know they’re smart, attractive and caring, but as far as their dating options, you don’t count.  So your person is out there, in the cold, dreary dating world with not a “real” prospect in sight.

But, are they really trying, or are they sabotaging themselves?  What’s really in the way? That’s a really great question.  And something that a Tarot Reading from Live.Love.Tarot can help discover. 

What’s awesome about gifting your friends a Tarot Reading is that the session doesn’t have to just focus on love.  Your gift can help them find answers about career, money and all sorts of other issues that stump them.

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I’ve seen and heard this many times – a client will tell me they want something, such as a new job or a love relationship, but then the next words that come out of their mouth is

“but I don’t know if I believe that it exists” or “I don’t think it will really happen for me.”

Desires vs. Beliefs means that what you say you want and what you believe is your “reality”  is at odds with each other.  In your heart you know you really want something but your head cuts you off with “stop with that silly daydreaming!”  So guess what?  Your beliefs will most often win.  Why?  Because when we believe something to be true, we look for proof -reasons why – it has to be true, even if it works against our heart’s desires.

When working with my clients, I use the Tarot to help them get clear on what they want, which is really Stage One of Manifesting – CLARITY.  Once their desires are clear we look for the blocks, like the opposing beliefs we were just talking about.    A client from this weekend told me that he wanted to leave his job for a better paying one that he could be passionate about.   Then I waited for what I knew would come next “…but I don’t think I can find that.” 

What I suggest for my clients to do is, instead of finding reasons why something can’t happen, find reasons why it can.  And make those reasons so strong that your beliefs change to help you find your desires, not fight against them.  I know that it may be natural for some people to have a negative belief come up first so I suggest you try this

Write down at the top of a piece of paper what you want to manifest. 

Example:

I want to get married and have a family

Next, write down the first reason that comes into your head why this will not happen for you

I don’t believe that there is anyone out there who I can fall in love with and will fall in love with me

Now, what I need you to do is write down 5 Reasons Why it is Not True

1. I haven’t really been looking for love, I’ve  been a hermit

2. I know people who have fallen in love and gotten married who are similar to me

3. I am a lovable person with lots to offer a partner

4. There are plenty of people out there that are ready to have a serious relationship and at least one of them is looking for someone like me

5. People fall in love every day

Do this exercise to combat every negative thought that comes into your head.  If the thought is:  “I can’t leave my relationship because I can’t find someone else to love me” then write down 5 reasons why that is not true.  It must be at least five because its important that the reasons why its not true are stronger than why you think this negative belief is true.  When you practice this way of thinking, soon enough those reasons why you CAN get something will win over and law of attraction will work in your favor.  And yes, while it may not be an overnight change -you’ve had those negative beliefs for a while after all -I’ve seen amazing things happen with my clients all the time.  They have gone from being in jobs they can’t stand to attracting or creating a career they love.  They have attracted healthy love into their lives when their old beliefs told them love was not meant for them. 

Even if you are a skeptic, try it, and see what happens.  I would love to hear what changes happen for you – Julierose@livelovetarot.com 

 

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I’ve had a lot of new clients in the last few weeks, many of them new to getting their Tarot cards read and “this law of attraction stuff.”  So for this week’s Manifesting Monday post, I thought I would go back to some basics.

Before you continue to read this blog, I’d like for you to look around you and think about what you see.   The chair you are sitting on.  The framed photos on your desk.  Books that you love.   Even if you are in a cafe or library, please take note of everything.  Do you realize that before any of these items were in your possession or around you, someone had to think about making them? There was an idea, perhaps a plan, then action and creation. In fact the room and situation you created for yourself may have come to you because you thought about what you wanted. The most basic principal of creativity simply states that your thought creates. If you want something, whether it be an experience or a thing, begin first by having a clear and focused thought of what it is you want.

Wherever you clearly put your focus, you attract and create.  That is the Law of Attraction.

Think about something you desire. Concentrate and focus as clearly as possible on what you want. If  the vision of what you want is not clear, then your focus will be blurred.  If what you want is heartfelt, your focus will be sharp. Desire directs focus. Blurry desires will never materialize but focused desires will. Clear focus is like the mind’s magic wand.  It points your creativity in a specific direction and channels all your energy and experience behind it. 

Whatever you focus on, you attract into your life whether you want to or not.

Sometimes you may find yourself focusing on negative things. The Law of Attraction doesn’t decipher what is negative or positive. It just gives you whatever you clearly focus on.

Are you focusing on your bad relationships? You’ll attract even more of the same. Focus instead on how excited you are to attract new healthy relationships.

Always thinking about how broke you are and confused why you continue to not have money? Hmmmmm, do you know the answer now? Yes, you’re getting the hang of it… focus instead on how great it is to be in the process of acquiring more money.

For this week’s Manifesting Monday exercise, write down something specific that you want to bring into your life. Imagine it clearly. Use all your senses to bring it to life. What do you see, smell, taste, feel, hear when you imagine having it? Put yourself in the picture of your vision. Can you see and feel yourself having the thing you want? The clearer the picture the stronger your ability to manifest your desire. Even if you are skeptical, for an experiment just play along and imagine anyway.  Something amazing may come out of it.

What will you choose to think about this week?

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With the Sun coming up for your love reading, this means its time for renewed energy in the relationship.  A mutual passion for life will be ignited.  Could it be that summer and its symbolism of freedom and fun that will get to you? Thoughts of outdoor concerts, picnics on the beach and vacations to exotics lands are at play here.   Financial burdens don’t seem significant or are lessened and you are able to spend some money on luxury and pleasure (yay!)

Emotionally you and your partner are at a stage where you are truly appreciating the best aspects of each other.  Whatever doubts and cloudy days affected your relationship in the past, you are now in perfect accord.  This is one of the least complicated times of your relationship as your love and commitment seem almost simple.

When the Sun comes up to symbolize the future of your union, it suggests that this is relationship that has a strong future as you not only love each other, you truly like and enjoy each other.

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Whether you are single and looking for love or already in a relationship and in need of some reassurance, certain Tarot spreads can assist you in getting the clarity that you need to have success in love.

Here are some ways I use the Tarot cards during a Love Destiny session to help you find the relationship that is perfect for you.

1. What Do You Really Want in a Relationship?

Most of us have preconceived ideas of what an ideal relationship should be like. But most often, those are generic notions of what should be “perfect” for us. There are so many qualities, beliefs and lifestyle choices that we have made that don’t always mix well with the people we think we want. What’s important is that we understand our specific criteria of what we believe the relationship should look and feel like and what qualities in a partner are the best fit. Using the Tarot cards, you can hone in on what it is you are really looking for in a relationship. 

• What do I need from a relationship?

• What makes an ideal partner for me?

• What does an ideal relationship look and feel like?

2. Uncover your Love Blocks.

I have so many clients who come to me saying “Where is he/she?! I’ve been doing everything I can to find love and yet…nothing!”  “Hmmmm” is what I say out loud but as I am often dubious of that kind of statement I’m really thinking,  “Have you let go of your ex (spiritually, emotionally, and/or physically?). Do you still hold on to negative beliefs about relationships because your parents are divorced/had a rough relationship? Have you had negative experiences with intimacy? Could you be sending out mixed messages to possible suitors? And most importantly, do you secretly doubt love will happen for you?”

To find out if there are any blocks like the ones I mentioned above, we do a reading or two to find out what’s in your way. What’s great about this is once you know what the issues are, we can come up with some solutions to break past these blocks and help you to get ready to attract that love you want.

3. Find Out Who Would Make a Perfect Partner.

If you are already in relationship, we can see if that person is a good match. We look at the energy between you to see what works and what doesn’t. If there are some challenges, there may be ways to work on them. Or we can look into finding out who would be a better match. Your love match may still be out there looking for you too.

The Tarot cards each have their own personalities and characteristics, making them ideal for understanding who would be a perfect match for you.

4. Get Clear on How You are Presenting Yourself.

If I were to ask you (and I will), what your most attractive qualities are, what would you say? How would you best describe who you are and what you have to offer in a relationship? What do you have to say about your work, your lifestyle, your values, your beliefs, your likes and dislikes? What is your ‘personal brand’?  Our session can help you get clear on how you are presenting yourself and if its a match for who you really are. This reading will not only help you to become more authentic but also show you how to shine in your best light.

5. Learn When You Will Find Love.

Timing is everything.  Our Tarot session can help you see if you are ready and when you may find a relationship. With this reading if a specific card is upright, the coast is clear and the conditions are right to find love. If the card is reversed, you may first need to overcome obstacles or you may be delayed in reaching the timeframe specified.

6. Receive a Love Action Report.

Through our session we carefully review all of the above issues and more – if you also have some specific questions, great! We can use those too. I work to help you find solutions for the blocks and make sure that any chaotic or stagnant things start moving gracefully.  After our session I provide the notes from the readings and then send you a Love Action Report. The Love Action Report will aid you in removing blocks and taking the necessary action towards becoming your best self to fall in love with YOU. Which will ultimately help you attract and maintain the most amazing love life.

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When reading about a person, The Devil card can symbolize a man or woman of money or erotic power, aggressive, controlling, and in may cases, highly addictive energy. We don’t judge and say its a “bad person” but certainly a powerful person who is hard to resist.  With my clients, maybe this card represents a person who spends lots of money on beautiful things and fun experiences, is amazing and highly addictive in bed and/or gives them an excess of adoration and attention.  Yes, I know, who doesn’t want some of that, at least once in a while?  Well, because often there is a big price to pay.  So, I know when this card shows up, this means that they may need to be careful or they will end up needing this powerful person to give them false confidence and identity.   But if The Devil comes up in the card placement signifying their own energy,  I know that they may be engaging in their own highly manipulative, obsessive behaviors.  There could be an interdependent relationship in which the addict and pusher have created a relationship that is not healthy for either.

With two of my clients The Devil has shown up to represent people from their recent past relationships.   And here is where things get tricky…

Client Stories:

“T” is a business/manifesting coaching client who can’t focus on her projects because she is currently obsessed with an ex and his perceived happiness with a new woman.   She wavers between talking about how terrible he is and also how much she misses the way he spoiled her. Although she knows its “wrong” she is very jealous of the new woman who in her mind is getting all kinds of “good stuff” like exotic trips and shopping sprees.   She knows that she was authentic to herself for breaking up with him because his hyper controlling and critical behavior towards her diminished her self esteem and caused her to constantly doubt herself.   Yet, she wavers between whether she made a mistake in leaving and wanting him to be unhappy in his new relationship, which she is convinced is a disaster in the making.  So during the Tarot Reading segment of our session she wants to ask questions like “is he happier with her than me?” “Is he more f*cked up about our break up than I am?”

“J” is a Tarot client who is obsessed with his ex, a beautiful older woman who in his mind can attract and be with any one she wants.   He believed her to be the “perfect woman.”  So when she told him that he wasn’t up to par in the financial aspect of his life and therefore would seek a more wealthy partner (while continuing to date him!)  his self esteem took a huge hit.   Mind you, this is a good looking, ambitious and artistically talented guy.   There are many women that are interested in him.  But his heart and mind always went back to her.  He was finally able to walk away but her recent attempts at spending time together has him confused.   He tells me he doesn’t want her back, but he is obsessed with making her want him and to admit that he was the best thing that ever happened to her.   So a question he often wants to ask?  “How can I make her become obsessed with me?”  This my friends, is a game that you can not win.

Lessons:

For both of these clients, I recommended focusing on their own life goals not on another person.  Yes, it may seem cliche but its so true.  When we put our energy on another person and try to control an outcome, especially one that has a negative intention, we are only hurting ourselves.  Whenever we think we want to manipulate another person’s happiness then we bring up the darkness and sadness in our own lives.  This multiplies when it causes us to take time away from focusing on and moving towards the amazing things that are in our future.

This quote from Buddha is succinct in this lesson:

Holding on to anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one who gets burned.

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The Moon Reversed tells us that there is a situation that may feel very unclear  and confusing to you.   What you thought you knew or believed to be true about your situation is now turning out to be false and/or disappointing.   This card is showing up to tell you that you need more clarity on the situation before you move forward.  If you are waiting on an answer from someone, it may unfortunately take quite a bit longer than you would like for it to.  There are still some things to learn about this person and the situation and its best that you be patient while the truth unfolds.  

For a client of mine, this card came up to show her that a job she had been “offered” from a friend was not actually as easy to get as she thought.  The impression he gave her was that he was overseeing the hiring of the well-paying position and if she accepted, it would be hers.  After coming in the discuss the job, she found that she still had to go through an extensive screening and interview process just like other candidates.  And his was not the final word for hiring for the position.  Of course she came to me upset and with questions about what to do next.   Luckily for her the rest of her cards revealed that while it would be a longer process, the rest of the team would be impressed wit her and she would eventually get the job, which she did…3 months later!

You say you want to have a fully expressed life.  You want that dream career.  That passionate love.   The adventurous  lifestyle.

So what’s stopping you?  Why are you STILL just talking about it? What are the blocks that get in the way of success?  Fear is often a huge obstacle.  Fear of failing.  Fear of looking foolish.  Fear of being rejected.   All these things loom largely in that over thinking head and you feel…paralyzed.  

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When working with my clients on the issues of fears,  I encourage them to do something every day that is out of their comfort zone.  Small things like saying hello to strangers to larger things like taking an improv class.  Every time they do something that is uncomfortable they stretch and grow and then taking risks become less scary. In fact sometimes they become fun.

If you feel you are ready to push your comfort zone boundaries my client Liz created an awesome program called Wanna Feel Like A Rock Star? This cool workshop not only provides lessons on singing, it helps with self esteem and teaches you to improve your public performance skills and stage presence.   And how fun is that to rock out in the process of removing your fears?

If you Wanna Feel Like a Rock Star contact Liz about her upcoming Meetup 1 Day Workshop and  the 5-Week Wanna Feel Like A Rock Star? Program.  The 5 Week Program is being offered at an INTRODUCTORY SPECIAL for only $190 but spaces are limited so book your spot soon.

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ImageMy 14-year old niece is awesome at Photoshop so I hired her to make me some Manifesting Mantras using my BFF’s Vanity Girl Hollywood mirrors.  (Thanks Jordyn!)

What are Manifesting Mantras and whats the connection with mirrors? Well, when we look in a mirror we can choose to see ourselves in a positive light by focusing on what’s amazing and beautiful, or we can focus on what we dislike and make ourselves depressed in the process. Have you ever noticed the way that many lonely, unhappy and financially struggling people talk? What words do they use? What they have accepted as the truth for themselves?  What we choose to see and what we focus on greatly affects our self esteem and how we move and present ourselves in the world.

With Manifesting Mantras you can choose to look in the mirror and tell yourself wonderful positive things about what you see (“I love my body that is unique and special”), what you want to create (“I am in the process of having a successful multi million dollar business”), or what you want to feel (“I choose to share my happiness today”)

A Manifesting Mantra can help you change your outlook and how you feel about your life as you are saying to your subconscious mind, “I am taking responsibility. I am aware that there is something I can do to change.” When you pay attention to your thoughts, you can begin to eliminate the ones creating experiences you do not want in your life.

WHAT TO DO:

Twice a day, stand in front of a mirror and repeat your positive affirmation ten times. 

This week’s Manifesting Mantra

Always believe something wonderful is about to happen”

If doubts, fears or negative thoughts come up, just recognize them for what they are—old limiting beliefs that want to stay around. Say to them gently: Go away- I no longer need you. And then repeat your positive affirmation again.

During our 3rd week of Love Club (my Ready for Love Manifesting Group) one of the group members had an exciting announcement. “I have a boyfriend now!” she told the rest of the group who was surprised but very happy for her. How did that happen so fast? We were only in Week 3 after all. The truth is I had been working with her in a one on one coaching program (focusing on career issues) for several weeks. During one of our sessions, while making her Life Vision Board, I noticed that she had everything she was dreaming of represented on her board…except any pictures that had to do with Love! Why? I asked. She didn’t even notice, or so she said. When we delved a little deeper it became clear that her negative feelings about past relationships, her own guilt about certain things she did, and her desire to keep her independence was making her subconsciously and consciously push away real relationships. She was in fact currently dating a few guys. One of them sounded pretty promising. A nice, handsome guy who was really sweet to her. Yet she didn’t seem to have much excitement for him. She focused more on another one, who, after hearing about his attitudes and actions, didn’t sound to be very “boyfriendy.”

When I see “blocks” within my clients I suggest, before moving forward, to release those things that keep them from getting what they really want. So I gave her some homework which consisted of doing a little personal inventory and then gave her a releasing ritual. Over the next couple of sessions she said she felt lighter and was getting more clarity about her love life.

By the time Love Club started, just a few weeks later, her energy felt open & positive and she was ready to address her issues. Let me say this is KEY to finding love. You may say that you want love in your life, but if you are still closed and you allow excuses, fear and negative energy to get in your way, you will find it very challenging. During group we did more “work” getting to the bottom of their issues, releasing negative energy, and finding clarity to move towards the love they want.

So it was actually very natural that she started to see that the emotionally healthy guy (who I saw as a great fit for her) was the one she really wanted. And when they were on their 5th date and he asked what she thought about being his girlfriend, she happily said “Yes!” Now they are in a committed relationship and are deliciously healthy and adorable. Drama free, which to emotionally unhealthy people may seem “boring” but to those in a better emotional space, know there is more time and room for amazing positive experiences together. I’m still working with her on career issues as well and let me say, her life is truly magical like a ROCK STAR 😉