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I am so excited about a new Tarot project I’ve been working on!  I’ve recently commissioned a very talented artist, Michael Shirley, to design a set of Tarot cards for me.  I’d love to share a sneak peek and while giving you a Tarot Tuesday Card of the Day!

The Judgement card shows up to tell you to take some time out for self reflection. Its your time to move forward to a new, more elevated phase in your life, but before that happens take the opportunity now to stop and think about lessons learned. What are the things you want to leave behind and what do you want to take with you as you start a new chapter in your life? Are there people you can choose to forgive, are there some shifts in outlook and emotions that are important to make? Often this is the stage of creating deeper awareness and paradigm shifts. Let go of unnecessary “baggage” and create space for new memories ~ you’re about to begin your exciting new journey!

 

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I’ve had a lot of new clients in the last few weeks, many of them new to getting their Tarot cards read and “this law of attraction stuff.”  So for this week’s Manifesting Monday post, I thought I would go back to some basics.

Before you continue to read this blog, I’d like for you to look around you and think about what you see.   The chair you are sitting on.  The framed photos on your desk.  Books that you love.   Even if you are in a cafe or library, please take note of everything.  Do you realize that before any of these items were in your possession or around you, someone had to think about making them? There was an idea, perhaps a plan, then action and creation. In fact the room and situation you created for yourself may have come to you because you thought about what you wanted. The most basic principal of creativity simply states that your thought creates. If you want something, whether it be an experience or a thing, begin first by having a clear and focused thought of what it is you want.

Wherever you clearly put your focus, you attract and create.  That is the Law of Attraction.

Think about something you desire. Concentrate and focus as clearly as possible on what you want. If  the vision of what you want is not clear, then your focus will be blurred.  If what you want is heartfelt, your focus will be sharp. Desire directs focus. Blurry desires will never materialize but focused desires will. Clear focus is like the mind’s magic wand.  It points your creativity in a specific direction and channels all your energy and experience behind it. 

Whatever you focus on, you attract into your life whether you want to or not.

Sometimes you may find yourself focusing on negative things. The Law of Attraction doesn’t decipher what is negative or positive. It just gives you whatever you clearly focus on.

Are you focusing on your bad relationships? You’ll attract even more of the same. Focus instead on how excited you are to attract new healthy relationships.

Always thinking about how broke you are and confused why you continue to not have money? Hmmmmm, do you know the answer now? Yes, you’re getting the hang of it… focus instead on how great it is to be in the process of acquiring more money.

For this week’s Manifesting Monday exercise, write down something specific that you want to bring into your life. Imagine it clearly. Use all your senses to bring it to life. What do you see, smell, taste, feel, hear when you imagine having it? Put yourself in the picture of your vision. Can you see and feel yourself having the thing you want? The clearer the picture the stronger your ability to manifest your desire. Even if you are skeptical, for an experiment just play along and imagine anyway.  Something amazing may come out of it.

What will you choose to think about this week?

During our 3rd week of Love Club (my Ready for Love Manifesting Group) one of the group members had an exciting announcement. “I have a boyfriend now!” she told the rest of the group who was surprised but very happy for her. How did that happen so fast? We were only in Week 3 after all. The truth is I had been working with her in a one on one coaching program (focusing on career issues) for several weeks. During one of our sessions, while making her Life Vision Board, I noticed that she had everything she was dreaming of represented on her board…except any pictures that had to do with Love! Why? I asked. She didn’t even notice, or so she said. When we delved a little deeper it became clear that her negative feelings about past relationships, her own guilt about certain things she did, and her desire to keep her independence was making her subconsciously and consciously push away real relationships. She was in fact currently dating a few guys. One of them sounded pretty promising. A nice, handsome guy who was really sweet to her. Yet she didn’t seem to have much excitement for him. She focused more on another one, who, after hearing about his attitudes and actions, didn’t sound to be very “boyfriendy.”

When I see “blocks” within my clients I suggest, before moving forward, to release those things that keep them from getting what they really want. So I gave her some homework which consisted of doing a little personal inventory and then gave her a releasing ritual. Over the next couple of sessions she said she felt lighter and was getting more clarity about her love life.

By the time Love Club started, just a few weeks later, her energy felt open & positive and she was ready to address her issues. Let me say this is KEY to finding love. You may say that you want love in your life, but if you are still closed and you allow excuses, fear and negative energy to get in your way, you will find it very challenging. During group we did more “work” getting to the bottom of their issues, releasing negative energy, and finding clarity to move towards the love they want.

So it was actually very natural that she started to see that the emotionally healthy guy (who I saw as a great fit for her) was the one she really wanted. And when they were on their 5th date and he asked what she thought about being his girlfriend, she happily said “Yes!” Now they are in a committed relationship and are deliciously healthy and adorable. Drama free, which to emotionally unhealthy people may seem “boring” but to those in a better emotional space, know there is more time and room for amazing positive experiences together. I’m still working with her on career issues as well and let me say, her life is truly magical like a ROCK STAR 😉

New moons set up incredible energies for new beginnings for a two week period of time and this happens for us each and every month.   Partnered with the Solar Eclipse this time is even more powerful.  Why not use them to their fullest potential and empower our circumstances to manifest easily and gracefully? In order to manifest Abundance and your Heart’s Desire into your life, its very important to first remove unwanted blockages and create a clear energetic path. These blockages could include connections to an old love that is no longer healthy, habits and patterns that don’t positively serve you, and inertia to move forward in your goals. A really great way to remove these blocks is by following this Cleansing & Manifesting ritual.
You will need these items:

  • A candle in your favorite color (best
    if it is somewhat short as you need it to burn out)
  • Glass Bowl
  • 1 sheet of paper
  • Pen/pencil
  • Cinnamon joss sticks
  • Hyssop herb (or Epsom Salt works well too)

1. Take the piece of paper, draw a
line down the middle. On the left write down the things in
your life that you want to Honor and Bid Farewell to (the things that block you from having what you really want) On the right side, write down the things that you wish
to Welcome into and Manifest.

2. Tear the sheet in 1/2 down the middle, with one sheet having all the things
you don’t want, and the other having the things you do want. Put it aside.

3. Have a purifying hyssop bath (or Epsom Salt) to wash away negativity.
4. Next create a positive energy circle. After your bath, go into a room in which you want to do your burning ritual. Starting in the east, walk around the room clockwise with a cinnamon joss stick in your right hand.
Visualize a pink energy of light surrounding your home.

5. Step into the circle bringing your two sheets, candle and bowl with you. It is best if there is a table to set down the bowl and candle, but you can also sit on the floor.

6. Take the list of things that you wish to Bid Farewell and burn the sheet with the
Candle tossing the sheet into the bowl. “I honor your presence in my life but no longer need you. I bid you farewell.”

7.Next take the list that you wish you welcome into your life. Say the phrase below and then burn the list. “I welcome you, my Heart’s Desires into my life. I have created space and am open to receiving all that the Universe has to offer me. For each of my desires I wish This or Better”

8. Allow the candle to burn down to the wick.

9. Now walk around the room anticlockwise
with a cinnamon joss stick, imagining the pink energy has turned
into a bubble and is now is lifting the smoke up in the air taking your
wishes away to the Universe.

The only thing left to do is allow the Universe to bring you what you desire, by saying “Please bring me this, or better” as the Universe often awards us with things that exceed our wildest imaginations.

I was reading an email from Mastin Kipp’s The Daily Love and he brought up a subject that I’ve discussed many times with my own clients. And that is, signs mean whatever you want them to mean.

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I hear the phrase “it was a sign” a lot from my clients. And what I’ve noticed is that these “signs” often support what they want to believe. It’s not as if these beliefs are always in their best interest but they might serve the purpose of being the easier road to take.
For example, one of my clients had been in a tumultuous relationship with a very successful businessman. She herself is a gorgeous, successful, smart and funny ad executive. But because of her distrust of relationships she often pushed away this man and the relationship because of her fear of getting hurt. Theirs was a relationship that had ups and downs like a roller coaster at Six Flags. I knew sooner or later it would become too much for either of them to take. She would often come to me saying that some event, phrase, TV show, comment (anything!) “was a sign” that they should not be together. And I would ask “why isn’t it a sign that you should try harder to make it work?”. Instead of trying to push through the fears and creating better communication, it was easier for her to look for reasons why she should flee.

Another client was dating a married man who said he was very unhappy with his current situation. He had promised her that he would start a new life with her once he made the jump to leave. Yet when the time came, he found many “signs” that it was not yet time to leave his wife. Why weren’t they signs that he should?

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Our minds are very powerful. We can create meaning in anything we want. We can choose to create significant meanings that empower us towards growth and change or we can use those same signs to validate our fears.

I encourage my clients to look for reasons that support positive growth in all areas of their life. If you want to make changes, push past fears, be bold… Let your mind look for reasons to support these things. Because when you look for positive meanings, you will find them.

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“When a man loves a woman
Can’t keep his mind on nothing else
He’ll trade the
world

For the good thing he’s found”

– Percy Sledge


If you’re like many women, you’ve read the fairy tales about handsome princes coming to your rescue.  You’ve grown up hoping and believing that you may be lucky and find your own handsome prince.  That age old fairy tale has, in many ways messed you up.  Instead of believing you might be the lucky one, you should be thinking someone may be fortunate enough to find YOU!  This isn’t about ego, it’s about self-worth.

Knowing that you are a “catch”

 I work with so many beautiful, successful women who have been in relationships with men who don’t value what they bring to the table.  And for some reason the women don’t see or value it either.  This course is about owning who you are, and attracting the men who deserve you.  You want that Sexy Bad Boy?Sure, if “Bad” pertains to his taste in music, not how he treats you.  Boring Billy? Of course not.  Yes he’s “safe”, but if he doesn’t step up his game in the passion and interests department, then he’s probably not for you.  Resume Randy?  He looks great on paper, but he doesn’t go out of his way to see you.  That’s a no-no.  This course is also about finding the balance of your basic needs with your passions in a relationship.  Yes, you can do this.   Because just as you are balanced (you aren’t 100% BAD GIRL BETTY or CAREER CARA are you?) there is someone out there who can be balanced too.  This course is also about learning to accept love and adoration.  Allowing love to come to you, not chasing it.   Yes, we will have action items for you. But that’s more about showing the Universe you are ready, practicing your dating skills and having fun exploring the dating scene.

How to Attract + Keep a Good Man: 4-Week Workshop Series

is about OWNING YOUR FABULOUSNESS

In the Workshops we will:

  • Work on Valuing Yourself
  • Learn How to Avoiding Making the Same Mistakes
  • Discover What Qualities Are Really Important to You in a Partner
  • Reading the Signs He’s Interested
  • Keeping the Relationship Going
  • How To Spot Red Flags, Move Gracefully In Awkward Situations And Avoid Jumping In Too Fast.

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livelovetarot@ymail.com

While I work with clients on all aspects of their lives, many come to me specifically to deal with issues around love and relationships.  I get urgent calls when there has been a recent break up.  Using my Tarot cards my clients want to get answers about why a relationship ended.   Almost always I hear those words “but she was my soul mate!” or “he’s the PERFECT guy for me!”   While I will always look into what the cards say about the relationship, the point I make sure they get at the end of our session is:  if s/he was your soul mate or your perfect match, they would want you too.  Yes, its that simple.  You can list off all the reasons why they are great, why they are loving, why you feel they are a great fit for you, but if they aren’t showing up in the relationship for you, its not going to work.  Ever.

Ok, so you say you are so in love, you are willing to do all the “heavy lifting”.  Well, one day you are going to realize when you stop putting in the effort, there is no relationship.

Or maybe you find yourself always having to “convince” your partner that you are meant for each other.  Really?  Would you have to convince your Soul mate that you are MFEO?  Shouldn’t they already know that…being Soulmates and all?

If you find yourself in these types of situations, and aren’t already broken up, get out.  NOW.  Save yourself the eventual heartache.

Before you stop and think about what you want in your Ideal Relationship, take a moment to list all the reasons why you are a Kick-Ass partner.  Why you DESERVE to have the type of love that you are always giving to others.  Why you know you can attract someone who would appreciate all your qualities.   Can’t think of a lot of things to write?  Well, we’ll deal with the  modesty (low self esteem?) thing later.  For now, ask some good friends what qualities they like about you and list those.

Now that you got your list, think about what you REALLY want in a relationship and what kind of partner you want to attract.   Take a sheet of paper and draw a line down the middle.  One the left side write down all the things that you do not want and will not tolerate  in a relationship.   Based on your Don’t Wants create a list of Do Wants on the right side of the sheet.

For example:

Don’t Want                                     Do Want

A cheater                                   A Partner who is monogamous and loyal

Clarity is Step #1 in manifesting.  You have to know what you want in order to attract it. 

Go out on dates and have fun.  You might not meet that Soul Mate right away but the more you meet new people and sort out the wants and don’t wants, the closer you will be to getting that perfect-for-you- person.