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In my world, Birthdays are such a big deal. Maybe its because I’m both a Leo astrologically and a “3” in numerology which means I’m a double dose (times a thousand) of good times, friends and fun.  So I celebrate ALL MONTH.  Yes, all month.

 But I’ve come across some people who don’t look forward to birthdays (huh?).  Even if its an age thing (yes, getting older can feel daunting) birthdays are a great way to mark new beginnings.  If life has been challenging lately, how about stopping pre birthday, to look at the lessons learned and think about you would like to see for your next year?  What about using your birthday so declare big positive changes and then actually take the action to do them for the next year?  You can do fun things like make each Birthday Year a theme.  The Year of Living Lusciously.  The Year of World Travel.  The Year of Me!

Whatever it is, make it special.  Make it AWESOME.

If you or someone special to you has a birthday coming up a Tarot reading is the perfect gift to give.  Through your special Birthday Tarot Reading you’ll get clarity on what’s been holding you back from having that fabulous life you know you’re meant to be living.  You’ll get insight on lessons of your past year.  You’ll also get to see what kinds of exciting and possibly scary stuff  is in store for you for in this new Birthday cycle.   You will receive a  detailed Tarot Reading Report based on what we have uncovered to use as a guideline and incentive for an incredible new year.

*BIRTHDAY READINGS*  $200

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*THE PERFECT BIRTHDAY GIFT*

Whether for a friend and certainly for you, a Tarot Reading & Coaching Session provides the ultimate gift: Amazing insight and clarity regarding past and current blocks and issues. Most importantly, it provides real tools to harness your unique talents and gifts and pave the road to your immediate future and fully realized destiny.

THE BIRTHDAY TAROT READING INCLUDES:

• 60 Minute Reading & Coaching (in person or via phone)

• Birthday Reading Report . Includes Summaries on each reading – General, Love Life, Career Outlook, Challenges and Strengths, New Birthday Year Out look, as well as Key Points, Action Steps and Strategies.

• Follow Up 2 Questions Tarot by Email 

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Lately I’ve been noticing a theme with my Tarot clients…

they’ve been coming to me with a strong desire to know what the cards have to say about their current love relationship.  Yes, I know, that’s par for the course for a Tarot Reader/Coach like me.  But these days many of my clients are bringing their partners with them so that I can do a Lovers Tarot Reading.  This is *awesome* because I get a chance to not only see what’s really going on with both sides of the relationship but I can also work with the reactions once the card meanings are revealed.  What do I mean by that?  Well, with one of the couples from a recent Lovers Tarot Reading, the male partner was hesitant about coming to see me because he was dubious about what the cards could possibly reveal about the situation.  Being a man of “logic” he told her he doubted that Tarot cards could tell him anything of value. Nice. But he came because, well, she pretty much insisted.  He immediately changed his tune when he realized that the cards brought up issues that he had been side stepping for a while, like the fact that he felt she was taking him for granted and had lately been spending way more time out with her friends than at home with him.  If he hadn’t come to the Lovers Tarot session he wouldn’t have been able to say how he felt without seeming like he was being a whiny b*yotch.  So what was his “solution” pre Tarot session?  Sulking. And doing the passive aggressive withholding sex thing.  Ummm yaaaa, NEVER a good thing…

Anyway, the result of the readings not only gave them clarity about what was happening and opened up a dialog but also helped to provide some really specific answers on how to fix things between them.   He enjoyed the session so much he even said “Make sure you put that in the Lovers Report!” when the cards revealed she was indeed putting others ahead of him and how it made him feel.   From the readings he learned she needed him to be more straightforward and vocal with his needs and he has seen that by doing this, there has been very positive responses from her (i.e. lots of attention, affection and time).

In another situation, the couple that came to see me seemed at first to be pretty drama free, until the Moon reversed showed up to reveal that one of the partners didn’t have much trust for the other.  Oops .  While the cards also revealed that there was no real reason for not trusting her partner, the Devil  card showed up to tell us that she had some serious trust issues from past relationships that were still plaguing her. But she hadn’t told her current love that she still hadn’t fully healed from these past traumas.  So while one person was blissfully ignorant, the other put on a faux happy face that was hiding some demons.  Through our session they were able to address her trust issues in a real way and create a plan to help her feel more confident about herself and the relationship.   And with the Report that came with the reading, they are able to refer to it and look back at any advice given by the cards.

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If you and your love are in need of some clarity and want to take positive action, make an appointment with me now for the Lovers Tarot Reading.

Click here for the THE LOVERS TAROT READING + REPORT

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Or, if you haven’t yet found your special someone and are ready to see what’s in store for your love life, try the LOVE DESTINY READING + REPORT

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Whether you are single and looking for love or already in a relationship and in need of some reassurance, certain Tarot spreads can assist you in getting the clarity that you need to have success in love.

Here are some ways I use the Tarot cards during a Love Destiny session to help you find the relationship that is perfect for you.

1. What Do You Really Want in a Relationship?

Most of us have preconceived ideas of what an ideal relationship should be like. But most often, those are generic notions of what should be “perfect” for us. There are so many qualities, beliefs and lifestyle choices that we have made that don’t always mix well with the people we think we want. What’s important is that we understand our specific criteria of what we believe the relationship should look and feel like and what qualities in a partner are the best fit. Using the Tarot cards, you can hone in on what it is you are really looking for in a relationship. 

• What do I need from a relationship?

• What makes an ideal partner for me?

• What does an ideal relationship look and feel like?

2. Uncover your Love Blocks.

I have so many clients who come to me saying “Where is he/she?! I’ve been doing everything I can to find love and yet…nothing!”  “Hmmmm” is what I say out loud but as I am often dubious of that kind of statement I’m really thinking,  “Have you let go of your ex (spiritually, emotionally, and/or physically?). Do you still hold on to negative beliefs about relationships because your parents are divorced/had a rough relationship? Have you had negative experiences with intimacy? Could you be sending out mixed messages to possible suitors? And most importantly, do you secretly doubt love will happen for you?”

To find out if there are any blocks like the ones I mentioned above, we do a reading or two to find out what’s in your way. What’s great about this is once you know what the issues are, we can come up with some solutions to break past these blocks and help you to get ready to attract that love you want.

3. Find Out Who Would Make a Perfect Partner.

If you are already in relationship, we can see if that person is a good match. We look at the energy between you to see what works and what doesn’t. If there are some challenges, there may be ways to work on them. Or we can look into finding out who would be a better match. Your love match may still be out there looking for you too.

The Tarot cards each have their own personalities and characteristics, making them ideal for understanding who would be a perfect match for you.

4. Get Clear on How You are Presenting Yourself.

If I were to ask you (and I will), what your most attractive qualities are, what would you say? How would you best describe who you are and what you have to offer in a relationship? What do you have to say about your work, your lifestyle, your values, your beliefs, your likes and dislikes? What is your ‘personal brand’?  Our session can help you get clear on how you are presenting yourself and if its a match for who you really are. This reading will not only help you to become more authentic but also show you how to shine in your best light.

5. Learn When You Will Find Love.

Timing is everything.  Our Tarot session can help you see if you are ready and when you may find a relationship. With this reading if a specific card is upright, the coast is clear and the conditions are right to find love. If the card is reversed, you may first need to overcome obstacles or you may be delayed in reaching the timeframe specified.

6. Receive a Love Action Report.

Through our session we carefully review all of the above issues and more – if you also have some specific questions, great! We can use those too. I work to help you find solutions for the blocks and make sure that any chaotic or stagnant things start moving gracefully.  After our session I provide the notes from the readings and then send you a Love Action Report. The Love Action Report will aid you in removing blocks and taking the necessary action towards becoming your best self to fall in love with YOU. Which will ultimately help you attract and maintain the most amazing love life.

Set up your Love Destiny Reading for only $200

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I love “LOVE” so its fun for me when the  “Love Bug” takes over my clients.  I consider them “bitten” when they meet someone special and suddenly they are all googly eyed and giggly.   What usually happens is they set up a Date Debriefing Session.  What is that?  Its when my clients  call me right after their dates to set up a Tarot Session.  They tell me its because having the session is like talking to a girl friend, a counselor and a tarot reader all rolled into one person, with no worry of judgement or bias.

Just this weekend, I saw a client who had a date with this guy whom she had been chatting with on the phone and texting for several weeks before they finally met. Their busy schedules  made getting together a little challenging.  But their relationship grew strong through their many conversations.   She told me he was single, successful (owned several businesses), had several homes in different states, was funny,  spoke four languages, and was “very good looking” according to his photos.  Quite a “catch,” yes?  But so is she.  Anyway, you can imagine the pressure that was building between them.  Would he be everything she thought he was?  Would she live up to his expectations?  So the date finally came around and…

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No,  thank goodness it wasn’t a Catfish thing, he was everything that he presented to be.  But the feelings were way more intense and also at times much more awkward than she expected.   After the date she wasn’t sure how he felt about her, and more importantly, how SHE felt about HIM.   So during the Date Debriefing Session we did several readings.  The first was a general reading on the energy of her life as a whole.  I do this first to see if there is anything going on that could possibly be affecting her energy around love, dating and being open – before we go into the specifics of the date.  Then we went into the outlook of the date.   What were the high points and what were some challenges about their get together?  I also did a Lovers Spread to look into their energy as a couple.  Would it work out in the long run?  What were they really feeling about each other?  What could block or help their progress?

Through our session my client was able to step back from her “spinning” emotions to have a more realistic view of what was going on.  Prior to our session she didn’t even want to talk to her friends, because she didn’t know what she was feeling much less able to explain it to someone else.  I helped her get clarity about the things she really liked about him and the date and what seemed to be some challenges.

Without giving too much away, the readings did show that while there was a really strong connection (The Lovers and the Magician), the romantic partnership would have lots of challenges (The Wheel of Fortune reversed),  so they each have to decide if they are ready to deal with those issues at this time (The Chariot reversed and Temperance).   What she told me she found helpful was that she had more clarity about how she saw and felt about him and the situation, and with that, she could make better decisions on the progress of the relationship.  Of course, as we finished our session he called to set up another date.   So, this is only the beginning of their love story…

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I met with a lovely couple last night.  They wanted to do The Lovers (couple) Reading because they felt they needed some insight on what was going on with their relationship.  While there were some challenges around a few issues (one likes to go out more than the other, they have different tastes in movies, one is too messy, etc)  their biggest thing was that they both have said they want to get married but each felt that maybe the other was not quite ready for that huge step.  What I love about using Tarot for these kinds of things is that it helps to create a more open dialogue.  What I mean by this is if the cards suggest that one person in the relationship may be too controlling or needy its easier for the person to “hear” than if the partner actually said it.  Mostly because what that means is that the “needy” person may have already secretly felt that he/she were acting as such.   Also, the insights are coming from the cards and me and not the partner who could potentially be in big trouble for saying such things! So basically the cards may allow the couple to listen from a more detached perspective.

I don’t want to give away too much of what was said, but through the reading they were able to bring out their deepest concerns (Do you really love me or just want to be married – to anyone? Are you really ready to be married or are you just afraid to lose me?).   These are really valid concerns that many people bring up in relationship readings and  the cards were able to allow them to bring up these issues and then talk about them openly and get really great dialogue going.

So, what was the outcome? To be married or not to be married?  Well, I am expecting to get an invite to a really special event sometime in the next year….

*THE LOVERS COUPLE TAROT READING – $250

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The Lovers Tarot Reading will give you and your Love the insight you’re looking for when you’re starting a new relationship, wondering about your current one’s compatibility, or deciding on whether the relationship has run its course. 

What The Lovers Tarot Reading Reveals

This special couples reading can tell you and your partner what you need to know about:

  • Whether or not you are deeply connected and meant for a long lasting love
  • Insight on current challenges
  • Discover what issues from the past may be blocking you from getting to the next level of your relationship
  • Receive clarity on what each of you really feel about the relationship
  • Whether or not you an/or your partner feel  completely committed
  • Deciphering the meaning behind your significant other’s actions (or figuring out why they don’t do or say the things you’d like them to)
  • Advice from the Universe on what to do next

The Lovers Tarot Reading includes:

• approx 75 Minute Reading & Coaching (in person or via phone)

• The Lovers Reading Report . Includes Summaries on each reading and Key Points, Action Steps and Strategies.

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During our 3rd week of Love Club (my Ready for Love Manifesting Group) one of the group members had an exciting announcement. “I have a boyfriend now!” she told the rest of the group who was surprised but very happy for her. How did that happen so fast? We were only in Week 3 after all. The truth is I had been working with her in a one on one coaching program (focusing on career issues) for several weeks. During one of our sessions, while making her Life Vision Board, I noticed that she had everything she was dreaming of represented on her board…except any pictures that had to do with Love! Why? I asked. She didn’t even notice, or so she said. When we delved a little deeper it became clear that her negative feelings about past relationships, her own guilt about certain things she did, and her desire to keep her independence was making her subconsciously and consciously push away real relationships. She was in fact currently dating a few guys. One of them sounded pretty promising. A nice, handsome guy who was really sweet to her. Yet she didn’t seem to have much excitement for him. She focused more on another one, who, after hearing about his attitudes and actions, didn’t sound to be very “boyfriendy.”

When I see “blocks” within my clients I suggest, before moving forward, to release those things that keep them from getting what they really want. So I gave her some homework which consisted of doing a little personal inventory and then gave her a releasing ritual. Over the next couple of sessions she said she felt lighter and was getting more clarity about her love life.

By the time Love Club started, just a few weeks later, her energy felt open & positive and she was ready to address her issues. Let me say this is KEY to finding love. You may say that you want love in your life, but if you are still closed and you allow excuses, fear and negative energy to get in your way, you will find it very challenging. During group we did more “work” getting to the bottom of their issues, releasing negative energy, and finding clarity to move towards the love they want.

So it was actually very natural that she started to see that the emotionally healthy guy (who I saw as a great fit for her) was the one she really wanted. And when they were on their 5th date and he asked what she thought about being his girlfriend, she happily said “Yes!” Now they are in a committed relationship and are deliciously healthy and adorable. Drama free, which to emotionally unhealthy people may seem “boring” but to those in a better emotional space, know there is more time and room for amazing positive experiences together. I’m still working with her on career issues as well and let me say, her life is truly magical like a ROCK STAR 😉

2012 is coming to an end…

are you ready?

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We’ve all heard that the Maya claimed that this future end-time could include a catastrophic magnetic pole reversal of the planet Earth, a solar shift, a Venus transit and mounting earthquakes, among other catastrophes. At the same time, I’ve heard other experts claim that the Mayans might not have claimed that the year 2012 would necessarily be the “end of days,” but perhaps just the end of an age. The “end” that we are to experience is that of a certain way of living. The new era we are being ushered into is one that involves a new, higher level of spiritual consciousness and collective awareness -a new Age of Enlightenment.

Whether you are “into that kind of thing” or not, you can still agree, that the New Year is a perfect time for major shifts.  It provides us a special opportunity to create exciting changes in our lives. Yes, of course I believe that EVERY DAY is a great time for change, but sometimes a significant start date like January 1, gives us a stronger push to make those important shifts.

Creating Your 2013 Manifesting Map

is a 6 Week Manifesting Group designed to help you map out a bold and exciting New Year.   How do you want to live out your life in 2013? Aren’t you ready to jump in with full force and go after what you REALLY want?  Don’t let another year go by in which you miss out in living the life you know you deserve.

In Creating Your 2013 Manifesting Map we put intentions on

  • CLARIFYING and DECLARING the things that you want to see happen next year
  • Set DATES and develop ACTION ITEMS
  • Create a Vision Board and a 2013 Calendar to lay out all your  juicy plans.
  • Put GRACE and POWER into your manifesting
  • REMOVE OBSTACLES  that stop you.
  • Develop a plan for a future so bright and compelling that you will be excited every day to follow your Manifesting Map

We can also work on changing some of your Heart’s Desires towards something that you feel PASSION and DESIRE for.  Because the truth is, if you find more reasons NOT to take action, you don’t really want it that bad.

Creating Your 2013 Manifesting Map – 6 Week Group

Starts Thursday, December 13th*

*(there will be no class on Dec 27th due to the Holidays)

ONLY $349 for 6 Weeks

Register and Pay before December 11th for $50 off (only $299)

“There is only one success – to be able to spend your life in your own way.”

~ Christopher Morley

Almost daily clients come to me seeking advice and guidance about their “life path.” I hear questions like “which direction should I be going towards in my career?” or “what should I be doing with my life?” Even the most confident and ambitious person may come to that cross roads in their life where they no longer feel comfortable with direction their life has taken them. Somewhere along the way, they may have made decisions that were more about being practical and lost track of what really made them happy or why they chose that profession in the first place.

This reminds me of last week, when my BFF Maxine and I had a lovely 3-hour lunch on a Tuesday at our favorite fun sushi spot in West Hollywood. We have weekly appointed “girl time” in which we also incorporate our “co-coaching” business sessions somewhere in the middle of the food, drinks and laughter. On this particular day, we both stopped to acknowledge how fortunate we were to be doing exactly what we wanted in our careers. Ok, so the conversation actually went something like this.

ME: “Hey, isn’t it awesome that we are doing exactly what we love?

HER: “OMG, totally! I am so crushing on my career!” (Yes, even as adult entrepreneurial women we still talk this way) .

Being friends since we were 11, Maxine and I know exactly what makes the other happy, what our true skills are and what motivates us. Because we love proving our own points, we made a list of why we had super-crushes on our careers (when we were in high school this was usually a list of our super-crushes on boys. Oh, who am I kidding. We’ve made crush lists all our lives and we still do).

ME: (as a Tarot Reader and Manifesting Coach/Entrepreneur) I have always loved helping people, using my knowledge of psychology/human behavior, being independent/not having other people tell me what to do, telling other people what to do, using my intuition to see how a situation will lead to an outcome, crisis counseling, creating programs, using Tarot cards, using Law of Attraction, flexible schedule/ability to travel, tied to the celebrity & entertainment world, public speaking, empowering people, lots of social interaction, income that has no salary limits.

MAXINE: (as Founder and Chief of Vanity Girl Hollywood/Brand Ambassador/Entrepreneur) She loves glamour, make up, sparkly things, talking about/creating/surrounding herself in beauty, luxury, using her skills in PR, marketing and branding, international travel, connecting people, celebrities & entertainment, networking, red carpet events, writing, public speaking, flexible schedule, business, and unlimited income potential.

It’s pretty exciting to know that we have created so much happiness + success in our businesses. What’s more exciting is that our businesses continue to grow because they don’t feel like work, so they move (mostly) with ease and grace. The truth is, everyone can create careers that they love. If you know what you want to spend your time doing, where your skills are, and how those skills can help others then you are more than halfway there.

Working with my clients through this process is actually really fun. I start with some basics, which include confidence building which helps to remind them that they can and have already created many things in their lives out of “nothing.” Then we move towards finding out their skills and passions. Just last night I had a 60 minute session with a new client in Boston and helped her carve out a new path for her career. She’s moving away from real estate and going into the parenting advice arena. She’s totally excited and invigorated now and I am excited to see how she progresses. One of my other clients who has been through my manifesting groups as well as individual coaching, is a beautiful super-social woman with pretty impressive flirting skills . She’s also a lover of love and always notices women’s engagement rings. Is it any surprise that she’s crushing on the Love & Attraction Coaching biz we developed for her?  And to find your Career Crush,  you don’t have to have dreams of being an entrepreneur.   I had a client who is tri lingual and has an MBA but she came to realize she wanted to be an Executive Assistant.   Why?  Because she loved supporting powerful people, being the behind-the-scenes hero and she wanted the prestige of  working for a Fortune 500 company.  Plus she said she loved dressing up and working in an office.

The biggest obstacle that stops you from attracting your dream career is not that it doesn’t exist (it does) or that you can’t make money doing what you love (you can). You must first believe that you can do it. But isn’t that amazing that you have control over that? You can change how you feel and your mind set about your career. It’s all up to you.

If you are ready to find some clarity about your life direction let me know how I can help. As you know from reading this, I would love to.

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Another 6- Week Manifesting Group started last Thursday with a kick ass  group of powerful women.  How do I know they are powerful if we just started? Because the first thing I do is have them write down all the things they have already manifested in their lives.  And what a list! From creating their ideal jobs, to attracting love interests and winning fabulous trips these women have used their powers to create some truly inspiring things.   In fact one of my favorite parts of group is when my clients do this,  because it not only reminds them who they are and what they have accomplished, but I also get to hear some real cool manifestations…and OMG so often they are mind blowing.

I had a client the other day who told me that just by walking around her city (West Hollywood) she has attracted  her billionaire partners for her beauty business,  and also offers to work on some movies both behind the scenes and on camera.  By talking to her about this, I  helped remind her that she has always had the power to bring some amazing things into her life, so why not the love of her life? Each of my clients who come to me about wanting to create and attract their ideals have all shown that they have the power to do it.  Sometimes they have just forgotten who they are.  They need a reminder of how magical they are.  And to get specific about the attraction process, I go over who they were when they attracted such things. 

  • What was your energy like when you brought these things to your life?  Were you mostly positive or negative? Low energy, high energy?
  • Were you open to opportunities? 
  • Did you believe you could? 
  • Did you easily picture the possibility? 
  • Were you  focused on it and take action?
  • Did you trust your instincts?
  • Were you committed but not attached (not acting like a control freak when the opportunity showed up). 

These are some of the things that you can do to harness your magic which is what I love working with my clients on.  I am so excited for the end of the 6 Week Group to see what these  particular Magicians come up with! 

TRY THIS : Make a list of 10 things that you have manifested into your life in the last few years .  Then next to each thing, answer the questions that I asked above.  When you look at your answers you can see how you might emulate your own actions and energy to attract more amazing things into your life.

In the last few weeks I’ve been asked to a lot of relationship readings.  I don’t know if its that Mercury  is in retrograde or that the hot weather is making people cranky and impatient but couples all over are having some major challenges.   I’ve seen misunderstandings lead to huge fights (Wheel of Fortune reversed), “boredom” to possible infidelity (Lovers reversed) and a lack of feeling loved (Empress reversed) lead to requesting separation (World reversed).   Otherwise “happy” couples have been antsy to see me to help prevent impending break ups  (or to help navigate the next steps after one).

One of the ways I get insight to what’s going on is through an 8 Card Relationship reading.  Want to see how it works?  For fun,  I’ll use a well known couple to show you.  You don’t have to be a tabloid junkie to know about the recent controversy involving the  young lovers, Kristen Stewart and Robert Pattinson (lovingly called Robsten by Twi-hards everywhere).  She cheated with her older, married director – he left their love nest.

Here are the cards I chose for them and what they mean:

The Lovers reversed in the middle left represents K’s (for Kristen) situational which shows she was unfaithful and now dealing with the repercussions of the affair .  Lovers reversed not only stands for cheating or open relationship but can also mean an unbalanced dynamic in a relationship.  In this case, it would be both as it shows that she also had more “power” over R (Robert).   The Star reversed for R’s side  shows he’s in pain and very vulnerable.  The cards show that R is a very sensitive person and this betrayal has cut deep.   The Moon reversed between them shows that all the facts have not been told.  The Moon reversed stand for disappointment and disillusionment as well as lies.  The Tower reversed above her side tells us that the cheating had probably been going on longer than a one time situation as the relationship was being destroyed over a longer period time than just this time they were caught.  Hermit for him means he wants time along to think about what to do next.  High Priestess reversed tells us that she is spinning now and trying to figure out what she can do to get him back .   The Chariot reversed on his side shows that he is back and forth in his feelings and has not made a decision about the relationship.  This is not a black and white situation for him.  While he is angry and hurt he still has love for her.   Temperance between them shows us patience and time apart is needed right now.  If she can be honest and not push him into getting back together, they may find a way to work this out.