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“Oooh, the Lovers! We know what that means!” The whole group giggles with excitement as I begin to tell them how the Lovers pertains to this particular reading.

In the past few months I’ve booked some very cool VIP Tarot Parties, set in beautiful homes  or luxurious LA locations like a secluded beach or swank hotel.  Most of the groups are made up of sophisticated, attractive and successful women looking to have some insight on their lives while enjoying the company of friends and a glass or two of bubbly. 

My VIP Tarot Parties usually begin with me getting clarity from the group on their intentions for the day and an explanation on how to get the best readings.  For those that request it, I offer a Mini Manifesting Session prior to the readings to help each of them get clear on what they want to attract and the best way to manifest it. These women aren’t new to the manifesting game, most of them are already living some amazing lives as producers, entrepreneurs, artists, etc…  they just feel stuck, want to get to their next phase or maybe just need to add some passion into the mix.  

There are two ways to have a VIP Tarot Party, 1) Set up a private area in which each person rotates to get a short private reading while the rest of the group eats, drinks and mingles.  And for the more open (and brave) 2) The Party is set up  in a group setting, like a living room or large dining table in which everyone is present as each person gets their reading.  In this way, friends get an opportunity to chime in about each person’s reading, sometimes providing further insight to what they believe the card means to the situation.  While both options are fun, the latter is usually more intense, and can create  deeper bonding among friends. There’s usually some crying happening too but surrounded by lots of support and love. 

I’ve received some great feedback from Tarot Party attendees, they tell me that weeks and months later they’re still talking about the insight they gained and the fun they had.  I love that! A few of the  groups I now meet with once a year so they can set new intentions and get clarity for their latest projects and passions.

Want to know how you can set up your own VIP Tarot Party?  Click on the image below and get the deets!

 

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I am so excited about a new Tarot project I’ve been working on!  I’ve recently commissioned a very talented artist, Michael Shirley, to design a set of Tarot cards for me.  I’d love to share a sneak peek and while giving you a Tarot Tuesday Card of the Day!

The Judgement card shows up to tell you to take some time out for self reflection. Its your time to move forward to a new, more elevated phase in your life, but before that happens take the opportunity now to stop and think about lessons learned. What are the things you want to leave behind and what do you want to take with you as you start a new chapter in your life? Are there people you can choose to forgive, are there some shifts in outlook and emotions that are important to make? Often this is the stage of creating deeper awareness and paradigm shifts. Let go of unnecessary “baggage” and create space for new memories ~ you’re about to begin your exciting new journey!

 

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Did you know there is a very powerful day in which the Sun and Jupiter are BOTH in Leo creating a unique opportunity to shine and enjoy amazing rewards from taking risks and going after your dreams? TODAY is that day! This is a perfect time for you focus and take action to create a life you’ve always wanted.  Nidhi, my colleague of Bliss by Numbers and I had an awesome online workshop on Monday in which we revealed some special tips for our participants to take advantage of this supercharged energy.  Here is a shortcut version of our event.

1. Clear Your Emotional Space.
Before you begin the manifestation process for The Luckiest Day of the Year, its important for you to let go of all your yucky negative beliefs around your ability to be happy. One of the best ways is to first see and understand the blocks in your way. Once you do this, you can then ask the Universe for guidance to clear those blocks that keep you from believing in your awesomeness. You may be having negative thoughts because of the challenges that you’ve been experiencing lately. You want to re evaluate those challenges to see why the Universe had brought them to you. Maybe you’ve been guided to the relationship that brings up all your negative stuff so that you have to finally heal your fear of abandonment. Or maybe you lost your job because you weren’t even happy anymore but just staying for fear of change and the Universe felt you needed a push. You need to trust that these challenges, however tough at times, are incredible opportunities for you to clean your energy and create space to call in what you desire.
WHAT TO DO: Say a “prayer” asking the Universe to set you free from all the limiting beliefs that block you from believing in your greatness. Once you have said your prayer believe that its working and that you are now releasing the limiting beliefs you’ve been holding on to about yourself. Act as if you now have that positive mindset you need to start attracting things you want.

2. Clear Your Physical Space.
Clearing your space means getting rid of things in your life that you no longer need so that you can open up space for new exciting things that you need and want now. You may have items that have been put away but never used – GET RID OF THEM! This is a perfect way to open the space for more abundance in your life. The clutter in your bedroom often represents a blockage in your love life. If you hold onto pictures of your former lover for whom you still have some sort of attachment, that may be the reason why you haven’t attracted another love in a long time. You may wonder why you are not more abundant in your finances. If you hold on to items because in some way you believe there is not enough or there is some thought of lack behind it, then this may cause a blockage in you experiencing more financial prosperity.
WHAT TO DO: Take a moment to choose a room or area in your house in which you would like to clear some space. Once you’ve chosen an area, use your phone or some sort of timing device to allot about 20-30 minutes for clearing. Take a bag and start placing things that you no longer want into it to clear space. You may want to have two bags, one for trash and the other to give to charity. Once the timer is up, stop. You’ve now created energetic space for things to come into your life.

3. Show Some Gratitude
Gratitude is an important aspect in raising your vibration and aligning you with the things you want to attract. We should all take time to stop and be thankful for what has been already been brought into our lives. Don’t you notice that the most unhappy, frowny-faced people are the ones who only want to focus on what’s bad and irritating about their lives? I’m sure you’ve also noticed that it doesn’t feel good to be around them. Their vibrations are just so low, that often being around them energetically feels painful. I just know that you aren’t one of those people because you know that focusing on what’s good ESPECIALLY in hard times is the best choice of action. Why? Because the more you focus on what’s good, the stronger your ability to attract more of that good stuff. Conversely, if you choose to focus on what sucks, you’ll just get more of that.
The Universe gives back more to those who show appreciation, the next time you have a problem or you find yourself struggling with something. Instead of struggling and becoming emotionally involved with your difficulty just calm down and ask your mind and the Universe for help.

WHAT TO DO: Write down 5 things you are grateful for. If any of them include people, take time today to contact those people (email, text, in person…) to tell them you are grateful for them and why. My suggestion is to include at least 2 people on your list today. The more people you positively connect with on The Luckiest Day of the Year, the better!

4. Get Crazy Clear About What You Want, Then Ask the Universe For It.
When you are at a restaurant, you don’t tell the waiter, “ummm I just want some sort of meat thing.” No, I’m pretty sure you tell them exactly what you want. You probably add even more specifics like “salad on the side, add lemon and no dressing.” Asking the Universe for what you want is just like that only what’s even cooler is that you can say at the end of your request “this or better” and the Universe might just give you an up-leveled VIP surprise! Why? Because the Universe, unlike you and your limited experiences, knows what else is out there, and may feel that something even more awesome is what you really need now.
For The Luckiest Day of the Year, its important to keep focused on what you want to ask, so I would suggest picking 1 or 2 things that you want to put your full manifesting energy towards today.
WHAT TO DO: Think about what you want to attract – is it love or a new job?…are you feeling bold enough to ask for both? Once you have decided, get VERY specific about what you want. Imagine it in your mind, see the details. Think about what it will feel like and even what it may sound like. Once you can fully imagine it, tell the Universe about it, then say “I want this or better”

5. Accept and Say Thank You.
The final step in attracting what you want is to believe that these actions you have taken will now allow for the things you want (or better) to come to you.
WHAT TO DO: Choose a peaceful environment for you to sit quietly to meditate for about 5-10 minutes. The space doesn’t need to be very large – a walk-in closet or even your office can be used for meditation, as long as it’s somewhere private. Now imagine that the things that you have asked for today are arriving at your door. If its love, you can imagine a representation of love such as cupid or a heart. You can also imagine a person but you don’t have to have a clear image of them. If it’s a job, it may be someone at the door with an offer. Whatever form you choose to use, imagine that you allow yourself to accept. Now, tell the Universe “Thank you!” You can add more to it, such as “Thank you, Universe for sending me the love I deserve” or “Thank you, Universe for sending me my dream job!” Whatever you choose, just know that the last step in manifesting on The Luckiest Day of the Year is accepting and saying thank you!

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In my world, Birthdays are such a big deal. Maybe its because I’m both a Leo astrologically and a “3” in numerology which means I’m a double dose (times a thousand) of good times, friends and fun.  So I celebrate ALL MONTH.  Yes, all month.

 But I’ve come across some people who don’t look forward to birthdays (huh?).  Even if its an age thing (yes, getting older can feel daunting) birthdays are a great way to mark new beginnings.  If life has been challenging lately, how about stopping pre birthday, to look at the lessons learned and think about you would like to see for your next year?  What about using your birthday so declare big positive changes and then actually take the action to do them for the next year?  You can do fun things like make each Birthday Year a theme.  The Year of Living Lusciously.  The Year of World Travel.  The Year of Me!

Whatever it is, make it special.  Make it AWESOME.

If you or someone special to you has a birthday coming up a Tarot reading is the perfect gift to give.  Through your special Birthday Tarot Reading you’ll get clarity on what’s been holding you back from having that fabulous life you know you’re meant to be living.  You’ll get insight on lessons of your past year.  You’ll also get to see what kinds of exciting and possibly scary stuff  is in store for you for in this new Birthday cycle.   You will receive a  detailed Tarot Reading Report based on what we have uncovered to use as a guideline and incentive for an incredible new year.

*BIRTHDAY READINGS*  $200

Birthday Gift

*THE PERFECT BIRTHDAY GIFT*

Whether for a friend and certainly for you, a Tarot Reading & Coaching Session provides the ultimate gift: Amazing insight and clarity regarding past and current blocks and issues. Most importantly, it provides real tools to harness your unique talents and gifts and pave the road to your immediate future and fully realized destiny.

THE BIRTHDAY TAROT READING INCLUDES:

• 60 Minute Reading & Coaching (in person or via phone)

• Birthday Reading Report . Includes Summaries on each reading – General, Love Life, Career Outlook, Challenges and Strengths, New Birthday Year Out look, as well as Key Points, Action Steps and Strategies.

• Follow Up 2 Questions Tarot by Email 

New Year 2014

2014 is almost here.  Are you ready?

As I review 2013 I see an overall theme for my clients. This past year was the time for huge change.  And I mean HUGE.

The Tower, The Death and The Judgment cards came up frequently.  I don’t say that meaning that terrible things happened. These cards show up to tell you that certain areas of your life need assessment and that in many cases, things will change whether you think you’re ready or not.  Many of my clients’ lives were shuffled around last year so that they could change and fix things that just weren’t working anymore.  They got out of situations in love and career that were uncomfortable, made shifts that were necessary and made decisions to move into paths more authentic to them. Some clients took risks and made some major moves getting them closer than ever to living into their ideals. 

Wherever you stand in the range of change, I’m sure you agree, 2013 was a significant year.  

I believe that the New Year is an exciting time because it gives us a marker to make assessments about our lives.  Big shifts happened over the last year, and its important for us to take a look at what we learned, what we want to leave behind and what direction we want to go into next.

  • Am I supposed to continue with the acting career I DESIRE or go back to that “stable” job in finance?
  • Is that person I’m dating really “THE ONE” or is this relationship heading for a break up?
  • What’s STOPPING me from starting that passion project?
  • Will I finally be able to TRAVEL to Europe this year?
  • Why am I STILL BLOCKED from finding love?
  • Have I really been doing every thing I can to create the SUCCESS I want and deserve?

These are the kinds of questions I hear from clients all the time. And as with every client I work you to find  you true paths and then take action to go for it.  

What are you waiting for?

 

Through my 2014 NEW YEAR’S TAROT READING + REPORT we work together to see what’s been going on with you and what’s in store for the future. You will receive:

  • Your 2013 in summary
  • Lessons from the past year
  • What you ultimately aspire to in the next twelve months
  • What can Empower you to live into your passions and desires
  • What’s Blocking you
  • Your Love Relationships for the New Year
  • Your Relationship with Career & Money
  • Your Health, Beauty and Well-being
  • Your Spirituality and Inner Fulfillment
  • What you most need to focus on for the year ahead
  • Your most important lesson in the coming year

All of these insights will be put together in a comprehensive REPORT which you can use as a guide to help you manifest what you want and keep track of your progress in the New Year.

2014 NEW YEAR’S TAROT READING + REPORT – $200

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Tarot Sessions can be booked for in person or via phone. Please note that all sessions are by appointment only.

 

 

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I was speaking with a client today, this really lovely woman in New York, and we started off by having her tell me about her successes of the week   How did she know she had some success? Because she said she had “proof” of how she is attracting the things that she wants in her life.  So we went over these things that showed her that she was on the right track of having a successful directing and writing career.

I love when my clients seek proof that they are on the right track.  To me its similar to when people look for “signs” because they basically serve as the same thing.  Reasons to confirm that you are moving forward and improving.   Proof and signs are every where, but many times people use them as reasons to say why they are failures.  “See, Julie? We broke up because its a sign that I suck in relationships”   Well, no, what if its a sign or proof that you are being authentic with yourself and you can no longer tolerate relationships that don’t work for you?  What if its proof that you and your partner didn’t really communicate well, and its a sign that you just need to learn how to do that better and/or find someone who is a better fit?  Its really how you position it, isn’t it?

Signs and proof are like the Tarot cards – there are no “wrong” or “scary” cards, even the ones that seem intimidating like the Devil and the Death cards are just like all the others, symbols of what is happening in your life, and how you can improve your situation.  In my sessions with clients, I use the cards to help them see where they are doing well, and where they can possibly make some changes.  If their career reading is full of what they might think are “negative” cards what we do is find the solution for a smoother path.

TRY THIS:

Below is an exercise to help you find proof that you are succeeding.  What you will do is argue against your negative self, that side that says you suck.  I want you to fight with passion against that Negative Nelly and let her know that her statement about you is false!

On  a blank piece of paper,  write down the numbers 1-3 and leave about 3 inches in between.   With each number write down each thing you have been focusing on to create/change/manifest.   Now write down 3-5 things that prove that you have been taking actions towards these things.

Example:

Proof Exercise 

1) I want to increase my business income by at least 20%

Proof that you’ve been moving forward with this

– I’ve asked for  help from friends or family for ideas to promote my business

– I have been reading books to help me learn more

– I’ve started new social media pages for marketing

– I’ve been working on an affiliate program

– I’ve been networking 2 times a month

Do this exercise whenever you feel stuck or are being hard on yourself about your ability to take action. This exercise will serve as your Proof List to show you that you’ve been taking action.  If you don’t have a big list, that’s ok, just do something now to add to it.

THE STAR
You’ve probably noticed that my readings about love situations have big challenges.  While I am a lover of love and believe that there are many amazing relationships out there, most people come to me for readings when things are not going as well as they would like, not when they are 100% happy with their relationships.

Lately I have seen The Star Reversed come up in love readings.  When this card shows up to describe a love situation it may signify that a relationship is going through a rough patch.  There seems to be underlying tension which has been eating away at the relationship.   One or both of you have resentments that have not been fully resolved.   Maybe you discussed things on a superficial level or there was even a big fight over the problem, but you never really resolved the issue.

An example of this is my client who came to me because he thought that things with his girlfriend were not going very well.  He said that he didn’t really know why but their relationship was tense and things were really weird between them sometimes.   As we looked at this situation through some readings, we discovered there had been a situation a few weeks back in which my client had been upset that his girlfriend was flirting with her co worker at a party  in ways he thought were inappropriate (too much touching and laughing). When he confronted her later, because they both had been drinking, there was a big fight.   When they talked about it the next day,  she said she “wouldn’t do that in front of him” again and made the discussion end there.  Hmmmmm.   They both kind of let it go at that point and went on with their lives.  While at first they were loveydovey little things started setting them off.  That is because below the surface each of them had issues that they never talked about, which were really at the core of the flirting fiasco.   As a writer/director my client has not been working steadily in the last few months.  Because of this, his self esteem has taken a hit and he has been having some fears that his girlfriend would find someone else (like the dreaded co worker) and leave him.   What we saw in the cards for her, was that she may be holding on to some resentments about money and having to pay for most of their expenses because his lack of work.

Through a relationship reading we saw that there was still a lot of love there so this was still a salvageable situation.  I suggested that he bring up the tension he had been feeling and take responsibility for his part in it.  While it was up to her to bring up her own issues at least he would be able to tell her what he would do to make things better between them.

When The Star reversed comes up for you in a reading, be sure to get to the root of the issues by being honest with yourself about what you’ve been doing to create pain or cause tension.  Only when we are honest with ourselves and take responsibility for our actions can we move forward in finding solutions towards a more loving relationship.  The Star card is also about hope and healing, so know that there is still a chance to make things beautiful again.